RHONY S16 Deep Dive: Daisy Toye Before Bravo | Bravo Deep Dive
How Brooklyn, nightlife, and 17 years with Martha Stewart shaped RHONY’s newest Housewife
Key Takeaways
- Behavioral analyst Elle Schwartz opens a comprehensive case study on RHONY Season 16 newcomer Daisy Toye, exploring her background before joining Bravo.
- Daisy's past includes working as a Scores waitress where she met Sai De Silva, and spending 17 years as Martha Stewart's makeup artist while living in a $300 rent-controlled apartment.
- Elle examines how Daisy's long-term exposure to extreme wealth while maintaining a modest personal lifestyle heavily influences her perspectives on status, access, and belonging.
- The episode analyzes Daisy's low-filter communication style, her critiques of castmates' homes and spending like Erica's island, and how her service work background shapes her ability to read a room.
- Elle questions whether Daisy's friendship with Sai De Silva can recover and considers whether Daisy will show more vulnerability and self-reflection in future episodes.
RHONY Season 16 deep dive on The Good Edit Unfiltered. Behavioral analyst Elle Schwartz opens a case study on Daisy Toye: born Nicole in Brooklyn, a Scores waitress who met Sai De Silva, then 17 years as Martha Stewart’s makeup artist with a $300 rent controlled apartment. Elle connects that past to this season, from the money question to Hailey to calling Erika’s island a dump. Know where Daisy came from, and nothing she does surprises you.
Summary
- Elle contrasts Daisy’s description of her Brooklyn home as “loosey goosey” with her husband Eugene’s more structured upbringing, and wonders whether that difference helps explain Daisy’s low-filter style.
- Daisy and Sai reportedly met about 20 years ago while working at Scores. Elle also discusses reports that Daisy previously went by Nicole Daisy Schwartzburg and chose the name Daisy.
- Elle reflects on Daisy’s 17 years working as Martha Stewart’s makeup artist and the closeness Daisy describes, including calling Martha family and a “fairy godmother.”
- Elle asks whether Daisy’s time in wealthy circles through work may affect how she thinks about status, access, and belonging.
- The contrast between Daisy’s $300 rent-controlled apartment and the wealth of castmates like Erica and Sai leads Elle to wonder whether money and status influence Daisy’s judgments.
- Elle considers Daisy’s comments about Erica’s island and Sai’s rent, as well as what Elle sees as contradictions in Daisy’s criticism of other people’s homes and spending.
- Elle points to Daisy’s role in relaying castmates’ comments and asks whether her years in service work may have shaped how she reads a room and handles information.
- Elle questions whether Daisy’s friendship with Sai can recover, and whether Daisy and Erica are likely to become friends.
- The episode’s closing question is whether Daisy will show more vulnerability and self-reflection, rather than relying on conflict and dismissiveness.
Chapters
00:02 - Elle reconsiders her initial judgment of Daisy
01:07 - Brooklyn upbringing, family boundaries, and Daisy’s name
06:02 - How Daisy’s working relationship with Martha began
09:20 - Martha’s advice and the meaning of calling her family
13:00 - Being close to wealth without feeling part of it
14:41 - Erica’s island, the popcorn ceilings, and status
18:05 - Eugene, the rent-controlled apartment, and financial security
21:24 - Daisy’s lack of filter and her criticism of castmates
26:15 - Reading the room, carrying stories, and the Sai friendship
28:38 - Elle’s case study: resentment, contradictions, and vulnerability
32:50 - The trailer rumor about Daisy and Jessel, with caveats
36:07 - What Elle will watch for in Daisy going forward
Edittors Recap and Pictures of Bombshell Martha
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Frequently Asked Questions
Who is Daisy Toye from RHONY Season 16?
Daisy Toye is a cast member on The Real Housewives of New York City Season 16 whose background includes working as a Scores waitress and spending 17 years as Martha Stewart's makeup artist.
How did Daisy Toye and Sai De Silva meet?
Daisy and Sai reportedly met about 20 years ago while they were both working at Scores in New York City.
What is Daisy Toye's connection to Martha Stewart?
Daisy worked as Martha Stewart's makeup artist for 17 years, developing a close relationship where she often describes Martha as family and a fairy godmother.
What does behavioral analyst Elle Schwartz reveal about Daisy Toye?
Elle connects Daisy's unique history—from a $300 rent-controlled apartment to rubbing shoulders with elite wealth—to her current cast dynamics, low-filter commentary, and judgments on status.
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